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I touch this bookmark almost every day. This is what my grandchildren call me. I chose this name, Pops, because to me it sounds informal, approachable, and somehow silly or jolly. M, my oldest grandchild calls me Poppy now. 💗 Also this: who doesn't love a pop? Root beer is my favourite. 

Sure, a bookmark is functional first, but it's like those strings attach me to my favourite five little humans. It was a gift from my son's partner who made it for me because she knows I revere books and reading, but better yet it's labeled with my personal grandfatherly identity and directive: to become (like my own Grandma was for me) an always available trusted someone. Dear friends, they are teaching me how to be a better man. 

Furthermore, don't you love the period? Full stop, it emphasizes that for the rest of my life, Pops is my sentence, in the best possible way, my ambition, my purpose, my vow. 

26 comments:

  1. You're starting off your new series with a stellar post, Pops!

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    1. Thank you. Let's see if I can be disciplined and sustain this, ha.

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  2. It always amazes me how much tastes change between childhood and adulthood. As a kid, the mere smell of root beer nauseated me. As an adult, it was a wonderful new discovery! I loved it. Not that I habitually drink pop anymore, but on the rare occasion when I choose it over water, root beer is in the running for favourite. -Kate

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  3. I've long said, if/when I ever become a grandfather, I want to be called G-Pop.

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  4. I think what you call root beer there is what we call ginger beer and it's very popular, have a great weekend.

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    1. I also appreciate ginger beer (which is definitely different than root beer, at least in Canada).

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  5. I love a nice bookmark. My grandson calls me, Nana.

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  6. I love that your bookmark makes such a wonderful loving statement. I really love the sweet relationship you have with all of your family.

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    1. Thank you. It's a small but substantial circle.

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  7. That is so sweet. My eldest daughter calls my husband Pops. She's the only one who does.

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  8. That is awesome. Our grandkids are getting so old! The oldest one got his drivers license this week!

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    1. Whoa. I can't imagine that! Yet I do look forward to adult grandchildren. Hope I'm so lucky.

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  9. Hi Pops. I am Buppa in my family. Even my wife now calls me that.

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  10. I love that period after "Pops." Yes, definitely full stop!

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