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Thursday, March 12, 2026

Snowmo-being

Thanks, son
There's so much more sunshine these March days, yet snowfall after snowfall continues. We know there's no point in complaining, but that never prevents a Canadian from griping about the weather. Between complaints though... why not go sledding?  

My son (the stuntman in the photo) recently repaired my "sled," a weighty old-school no-name-brand-yellow clunker of a (perfect-for-me) snowmobile. Thanks to him, my clunker has much more gumption. 

As the photo implies, my son and I approach snowmobiling differently. One might say we have opposite ways of snowmo-being. He's no fool, but he's more of a risk-taker and quite unflappable. My approach is more cautious, and uh, geriatric. Nevertheless, despite differing "braaaaap" styles, inside us we're experiencing the same emotion: pure joy.    

I often say that my son possesses many of my characteristics and all those I wish I had. Did I have his confidence at his age? Nope. Could I repair a snowmobile or anything else? Nope. But I could draw it, paint it, describe it, neglect it, and then buy parts so he could fix it. I believe this relationship is referred to as symbiosis, or perhaps codependency? 

I josh. I'm grateful for him. He needs me though too. After we zipped around for a while, I pressed my brake and noticed no resistance. Hmm. This was not overly concerning among the flat prairie fields, but I made a mental note and adjusted accordingly. Later, I mentioned the brake problem. His reply?  "Oh yes, I know; I haven't fixed the brakes yet." 😕Perhaps he could have shared that important info pre-braaaap?

I told you he was unflappable. (Or perhaps planning my demise?) We chuckled; we both know there's something I'm a bit better at than him sometimes: fundamental communication. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ 

6 comments:

  1. He hadn't fixed the brakes but was happy to go out snowmobiling with you? WTF dude. I'm glad you're ok and glad you live on a flat prairie. I haven't been on a snowmobile since I was a kid but I used to love it. We lived on the edge of Red Deer with fields behind us and neighbors with snowmobiles. Lots of fun with them.
    He doesn't like highmarking does he?

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  2. Tara was an avid snowmobiler in a past life and still refers to it as "sledding." When I hear that term, I think of my old wooden Flexible Flyer. In any case, both types of "sledding" are a blast!

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  3. ...once, I was ten foot tall and bulletproof, not anymore.

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  4. Yikes! Quite a major communication omission!
    I remember driving Dad's snowmobile when I was a child, and being pulled on a toboggan behind the snowmobile. Some days I think about the things we were allowed to do and am thankful I made it to adulthood and beyond.

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  5. Oh my goodness. First I can't believe you have snow. I'm sorry. Sunny days are coming your way. 2nd I was on a snowmobile once. It was a terribly scary experience and I have never done it again. And you did it with little brakes! You are my hero.

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