Wednesday, December 17, 2014
Monday, December 15, 2014
hedgehog. Not just one of my favourite fables, it's scrumptious.
Are you a hedgehog or a fox?
Are you a hedgehog or a fox?
Thursday, December 11, 2014
And depending on how you look at them, they are all beginnings too. Both.
Sunday, December 7, 2014
Wednesday, December 3, 2014
Sunday, November 30, 2014
|Run Tortoise! Run!|
What do all these things have in common?
- The weather. As Mark Twain said, “Everyone complains about the weather but no one does anything about it.”
- Drivers: some drive too slow, some too fast, some too recklessly, some too cautiously and that’s why they remind me of Goldilocks.
- Parenting. As the saying goes, “one characteristic of the normal child is that s/he doesn't act that way very often.”
- Waiting. Life can be like that spinning circle of dots on your computer screen: loading-loading-loading.
- Goals. Some may say this is poor word choice, but even turtles run.
- Change. Turn the page or don’t: it’s your story. One thing though: who will want to read yours?
- Relationships. Listen carefully or you will miss the best parts.
- Peter Jackson movies. The longer the movie, the longer the movie.
- Being an Oilers fan. That awkward moment when someone is crying and it’s you.
- Fishing. As Steven Wright says, “there’s a fine line between fishing and just standing on the shore like an idiot.”
Thursday, November 27, 2014
Monday, November 24, 2014
Friday, November 21, 2014
A sock turned inside-out is still a sock.
Even if it has a hole.
Even if the dryer ate the other one.
Even if it’s on your foot.
Even if you complain about it to anyone and everyone.
In other words, a thing is still a thing even if you don’t want it to be a thing.
This likely seems quite abstract and random but think about this, think carefully: what is it that you are not willing to face? Or what is holding you back? Or what do you finally need to do/try/adjust/admit/let go of/surrender to/stop/change to have the life you need? (Note that I said need, not necessarily want.) What?
A very wise woman once asked me to write down three scenarios:
1. The worst-case scenario.
2. The middle-of-the-road scenario.
3. The best-case scenario.
What I learned from that task was that my worst fears probably don’t exist, and may never exist. Feeling stuck or helpless or whatever is just that, a feeling. It’s not a fact.
That sock might feel like a fact, an overwhelming fact but what if it isn’t? What if you CAN do something about it besides dwelling on it? Even if it takes a long time because
1. Even though we all love quick fixes, great things take a long time.
2. We only really grow when we face and overcome tough challenges.
3. You were born with the ability to change someone's life. Even your own.
Tuesday, November 18, 2014
And she says, "What?"
I say "Guess."
And she says, "I don't know."
So I say, "Guess."
And she just looks at me.
And I say, "C'mon. Guess."
And she says, "No."
My wife can't guess. It's a real thing you know. Some people can't guess. Picture the support group for that eh? I, however, enjoy guessing. When people say to me, "Guess what?" I say random things like:
1. Whoa. It's like you just punched me in the frontal lobe.
2. They finally invented maple cough syrup? (Seriously, that should be a thing.)
3. Someone realized that the cure for world hunger is food?
Getting back to my wife. I don't know why she can't guess. She doesn't have time. She's like a broken toy. She's like a Jack in the box. Maybe a Jacklyn in the box? Or Jack Squat in the box?. Anyway, metaphorically speaking, instead of popping up she just opens the lid, stands, tilts her head to one side, and looks out the tops of her eyes at me.
I don't mean to say my wife isn't fun. She is. She's way more fun than I am. For example, she enjoys organized team sports. And people. She just can't guess, I guess. (See what I did there?)
(My wife doesn't much appreciate Phil Dunphy either. Can you believe it?)